Let’s Get Real
42 Tips for the Stuck Manager
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"Work on yourself before you set out to influence the world around you. In this no-holds barred, fiercely inspirational and relentlessly practical book, Binod dives into the essential areas to unfurl your career potential – knowing yourself, managing yourself, managing others and managing transitions. Let’s get Real guides you towards transforming your career to transform your life!

‘There is so much good advice in this book that it seems invidious to single out specific items. I know of no better guide to life’s challenges and to their solutions than Binod successful entrepreneur, coach, mentor, volunteer, podcast star!’ ∼ Paul Smith, CFA, (Past President and CEO of CFA Institute)

Foreword
Prologue
Chapter IKnowing Yourself
1.Know your values
2.How to ensure you fit in
3.Twelve signs that indicate you need to boost self-awareness
Chapter IIManaging Yourself
4.Take charge of your career
5.How coaching can propel your career
6.How to get the best out of coaching
7.Be interested to be interesting
8.Adapt and thrive
9.Blow your trumpet bigly (aka talk the walk)
10.The importance of having your opinion
11.Reading books as a leadership habit
12.Surround yourself with the right people
13.A healthy body for impactful leadership
14.The upside of self-motivation
15.Leverage the bountiful blessings of long experience
16.How to stand out from the crowd
17.Overcoming the paralysis through analysis syndrome
18.Why you must be disagreeable (aka Nice Guys often Finish Last)
19.How to play your uniqueness as an asset
20.Think before you talk
21.Are you busy or productive?
22.How to play corporate Game of Thrones
23.The science of dealing with jerks
24.A great future doesn’t require a great past
Chapter IIIManaging Others
25.How to hire assets, not liabilities
26.The fine art of delegation
27.How not to be a jerk
28.Humor — an underestimated leadership skill
29.Trust to get the best
30.How to craft your distinctive management style
31.Why leaders must be darn good storytellers
32.The power of awesome appreciation
33.Authentic leadership — fake it but you won’t make it
34.Learn from the greats
Chapter IVManaging Transitions
35.How to unstuck yourself in mid-career
36.My transition story # 1 — employee to entrepreneur
37.My transition story # 2 — entrepreneur to freelancer
38.What else can you be great at?
39.Lessons from successful transitions
40.Wise up before starting up
41.The science of strategic quitting
42.From manager to C-suite
AppendixMental Toughness: The Concept
Acknowledgement

Binod Shankar is an executive coach, blogger, platform speaker, the host of ‘The Real Finance Mentor podcast’ and appears frequently on CNBC Arabia and Asharq Bloomberg. After a long career at KPMG, Andersen, EY et al, he turned entrepreneur to run the largest CFA prep provider in the MENA region which was later acquired by Kaplan Inc. Binod is a Chartered Accountant, a CFA charter holder and holds the Level 7 Qualification in Coaching and Mentoring from ILM, the UK body. He’s also an endurance athlete who cycles long distance and climbs big mountains.

Advance praise for the book

Let’s Get Real is the ultimate toolkit for senior managers and leaders who feel stuck in their career and don’t know how to move up or sideways. Binod’s no-nonsense writing feels refreshing and gets to the heart of our behavioural shortcomings.”

Marshall Goldsmith

Thinkers50 Hall of Fame

#1 Leadership Thinker, #1 Exec Coach, #1 NYT Bestselling Author

“Binod Shankar is someone who has travelled his life’s journey with his eyes wide open. His strategy has been to learn from everything that happens to him and around him. This book describes how he has translated this into a philosophy and an approach which has delivered a very successful career. It works extremely well for all as an illustration of how thoughtful proactive career management works, irrespective of whether you agree with all of its content”.

Doug Strycharczyk, CEO, AQR International

The title of the book reflects the honest style Binod has always been known for and I wasn’t disappointed when I started reading. The honesty transpires throughout the book. It takes courage to be transparent in writing by sharing personal experiences, mistakes, and learnings. The genuine approach makes you relate to the author and identify with the situations. You are compelled to put the learnings into practice.

Pascale WAZEN PALPIED

Director, Head of Region, MEA FactSet

As the world has been shifting from scarcity to abundance be it food or information, our old mental models of spotting trends and following them are no longer relevant; rather we need to look within and follow our strengths/passions - in short, we need to become trend setters and not trend spotters. This is hard as we have been programmed over generations in the scarcity era. Hence there is a need to consciously practice self-awareness to be able to experiment, reflect, and refine our strengths and choices. Binod has taken the effort to pen down his own reflections and learnings for all of us to consider and see which of those we can relate to and hence can we learn from those experiences. His writing style is humorous at times, sarcastic as also direct and in your face so if you are someone who doesn’t relate to that style my suggestion will be to ignore the style and get at the substance. I think everyone will find something that they can think about and utilize in their lives. Happy reflections!

Pankaj Rai

Group Chief Data and Analytics Officer, Aditya Birla Group

“I must say, I am amazed on how direct to the point and powerful this book is. This will change the life of millions of people. This is like the Olympic torch which will light the pathway for millions who aspire to make their name. This is like a nectar for life, learnings from the Guru himself after helping, making, watching careers of thousands of successful finance professionals, who moved from can’t-do attitude to can-do attitude. When they say, all careers look elevated but only in retrospect, well here is what you need to become elevated, remain elevated, and continue to be elevated. What’s more appealing is the authenticity of the content, which is inspired by real examples, stories of life, and time-tested techniques which work not just on climbing corporate ladders but also climbing real mountain peaks. A must read for anyone and everyone who wants to change themselves and things around and their careers. Highly recommended!”

Biharilal Deora, CFA

Director, Abakkus Asset Management LLP

Director, CFA India Society

If you want to be an aspiring leader, there cannot be a better real source than Let’s Get Real.” The book is built around the idea that true managerial success comes from a ‘paradigm shift’ from knowing oneself to managing others. It is not only a guide to personal effectiveness but also provides insights on how to cope with transitions and deal with people and difficult situations effectively. Written by someone who himself has had successful stints as a corporate leader and entrepreneur, the book is clear and easy to understand, making it a great option for readers who may be new to the self-help or leadership genre”.

Nawazish Mirza, PhD

Full Professor and Director of Academics, Excelia

I had the pleasure of having Binod Shankar as my CFA trainer, and must say, his insights and mentorship had a lasting impact on my career. His new book, Let’s Get Real, reflects his vast experiences and unique approach to professional development. The book is a must-read for any senior professional who feels stuck in their career and is looking for practical, no-nonsense advice. Binod’s personal journey from a corporate warrior to a successful entrepreneur and his expertise as an executive coach is evident in the four parts of the book — knowing yourself, managing yourself, managing others, and managing transitions. The tips provided are highly relatable, and the storytelling brings the content to life. I highly recommend Let’s Get Real to anyone looking to take control of their career and avoid common mistakes that many managers make.

Hussein Sayed, CFA

Host at CNBC Arabia, Market Strategist, Media Trainer, MC & Moderator

“In Let’s Get Real, Binod Shankar does a masterful job of creating a practical guide to personal and professional transformation. He’s absolutely correct in his assessment that far too many of us go on autopilot and end up sleepwalking through our careers, never connecting the dots between personal and professional purpose. Let’s Get Real is a must-read for anyone who wants to wake up from a comfy, cozy career slumber.”

Dr. Andrew Temte, CFA

Author of Balancing Act: Teach, Coach, Mentor, Inspire, Host of The Balancing Act Podcast, and former CEO of Kaplan Professional

Advance praise for the book

Let’s Get Real is the ultimate toolkit for senior managers and leaders who feel stuck in their career and don’t know how to move up or sideways. Binod’s no-nonsense writing feels refreshing and gets to the heart of our behavioural shortcomings.”

Marshall Goldsmith

Thinkers50 Hall of Fame

#1 Leadership Thinker, #1 Exec Coach, #1 NYT Bestselling Author

“Binod Shankar is someone who has travelled his life’s journey with his eyes wide open. His strategy has been to learn from everything that happens to him and around him. This book describes how he has translated this into a philosophy and an approach which has delivered a very successful career. It works extremely well for all as an illustration of how thoughtful proactive career management works, irrespective of whether you agree with all of its content”.

Doug Strycharczyk, CEO, AQR International

The title of the book reflects the honest style Binod has always been known for and I wasn’t disappointed when I started reading. The honesty transpires throughout the book. It takes courage to be transparent in writing by sharing personal experiences, mistakes, and learnings. The genuine approach makes you relate to the author and identify with the situations. You are compelled to put the learnings into practice.

Pascale WAZEN PALPIED

Director, Head of Region, MEA FactSet

As the world has been shifting from scarcity to abundance be it food or information, our old mental models of spotting trends and following them are no longer relevant; rather we need to look within and follow our strengths/passions - in short, we need to become trend setters and not trend spotters. This is hard as we have been programmed over generations in the scarcity era. Hence there is a need to consciously practice self-awareness to be able to experiment, reflect, and refine our strengths and choices. Binod has taken the effort to pen down his own reflections and learnings for all of us to consider and see which of those we can relate to and hence can we learn from those experiences. His writing style is humorous at times, sarcastic as also direct and in your face so if you are someone who doesn’t relate to that style my suggestion will be to ignore the style and get at the substance. I think everyone will find something that they can think about and utilize in their lives. Happy reflections!

Pankaj Rai

Group Chief Data and Analytics Officer, Aditya Birla Group

“I must say, I am amazed on how direct to the point and powerful this book is. This will change the life of millions of people. This is like the Olympic torch which will light the pathway for millions who aspire to make their name. This is like a nectar for life, learnings from the Guru himself after helping, making, watching careers of thousands of successful finance professionals, who moved from can’t-do attitude to can-do attitude. When they say, all careers look elevated but only in retrospect, well here is what you need to become elevated, remain elevated, and continue to be elevated. What’s more appealing is the authenticity of the content, which is inspired by real examples, stories of life, and time-tested techniques which work not just on climbing corporate ladders but also climbing real mountain peaks. A must read for anyone and everyone who wants to change themselves and things around and their careers. Highly recommended!”

Biharilal Deora, CFA

Director, Abakkus Asset Management LLP

Director, CFA India Society

If you want to be an aspiring leader, there cannot be a better real source than Let’s Get Real.” The book is built around the idea that true managerial success comes from a ‘paradigm shift’ from knowing oneself to managing others. It is not only a guide to personal effectiveness but also provides insights on how to cope with transitions and deal with people and difficult situations effectively. Written by someone who himself has had successful stints as a corporate leader and entrepreneur, the book is clear and easy to understand, making it a great option for readers who may be new to the self-help or leadership genre”.

Nawazish Mirza, PhD

Full Professor and Director of Academics, Excelia

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"Work on yourself before you set out to influence the world around you. In this no-holds barred, fiercely inspirational and relentlessly practical book, Binod dives into the essential areas to unfurl your career potential – knowing yourself, managing yourself, managing others and managing transitions. Let’s get Real guides you towards transforming your career to transform your life!

‘There is so much good advice in this book that it seems invidious to single out specific items. I know of no better guide to life’s challenges and to their solutions than Binod successful entrepreneur, coach, mentor, volunteer, podcast star!’ ∼ Paul Smith, CFA, (Past President and CEO of CFA Institute)

Table of contents
Foreword
Prologue
Chapter IKnowing Yourself
1.Know your values
2.How to ensure you fit in
3.Twelve signs that indicate you need to boost self-awareness
Chapter IIManaging Yourself
4.Take charge of your career
5.How coaching can propel your career
6.How to get the best out of coaching
7.Be interested to be interesting
8.Adapt and thrive
9.Blow your trumpet bigly (aka talk the walk)
10.The importance of having your opinion
11.Reading books as a leadership habit
12.Surround yourself with the right people
13.A healthy body for impactful leadership
14.The upside of self-motivation
15.Leverage the bountiful blessings of long experience
16.How to stand out from the crowd
17.Overcoming the paralysis through analysis syndrome
18.Why you must be disagreeable (aka Nice Guys often Finish Last)
19.How to play your uniqueness as an asset
20.Think before you talk
21.Are you busy or productive?
22.How to play corporate Game of Thrones
23.The science of dealing with jerks
24.A great future doesn’t require a great past
Chapter IIIManaging Others
25.How to hire assets, not liabilities
26.The fine art of delegation
27.How not to be a jerk
28.Humor — an underestimated leadership skill
29.Trust to get the best
30.How to craft your distinctive management style
31.Why leaders must be darn good storytellers
32.The power of awesome appreciation
33.Authentic leadership — fake it but you won’t make it
34.Learn from the greats
Chapter IVManaging Transitions
35.How to unstuck yourself in mid-career
36.My transition story # 1 — employee to entrepreneur
37.My transition story # 2 — entrepreneur to freelancer
38.What else can you be great at?
39.Lessons from successful transitions
40.Wise up before starting up
41.The science of strategic quitting
42.From manager to C-suite
AppendixMental Toughness: The Concept
Acknowledgement
Biographical note

Binod Shankar is an executive coach, blogger, platform speaker, the host of ‘The Real Finance Mentor podcast’ and appears frequently on CNBC Arabia and Asharq Bloomberg. After a long career at KPMG, Andersen, EY et al, he turned entrepreneur to run the largest CFA prep provider in the MENA region which was later acquired by Kaplan Inc. Binod is a Chartered Accountant, a CFA charter holder and holds the Level 7 Qualification in Coaching and Mentoring from ILM, the UK body. He’s also an endurance athlete who cycles long distance and climbs big mountains.

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Advance praise for the book

Let’s Get Real is the ultimate toolkit for senior managers and leaders who feel stuck in their career and don’t know how to move up or sideways. Binod’s no-nonsense writing feels refreshing and gets to the heart of our behavioural shortcomings.”

Marshall Goldsmith

Thinkers50 Hall of Fame

#1 Leadership Thinker, #1 Exec Coach, #1 NYT Bestselling Author

“Binod Shankar is someone who has travelled his life’s journey with his eyes wide open. His strategy has been to learn from everything that happens to him and around him. This book describes how he has translated this into a philosophy and an approach which has delivered a very successful career. It works extremely well for all as an illustration of how thoughtful proactive career management works, irrespective of whether you agree with all of its content”.

Doug Strycharczyk, CEO, AQR International

The title of the book reflects the honest style Binod has always been known for and I wasn’t disappointed when I started reading. The honesty transpires throughout the book. It takes courage to be transparent in writing by sharing personal experiences, mistakes, and learnings. The genuine approach makes you relate to the author and identify with the situations. You are compelled to put the learnings into practice.

Pascale WAZEN PALPIED

Director, Head of Region, MEA FactSet

As the world has been shifting from scarcity to abundance be it food or information, our old mental models of spotting trends and following them are no longer relevant; rather we need to look within and follow our strengths/passions - in short, we need to become trend setters and not trend spotters. This is hard as we have been programmed over generations in the scarcity era. Hence there is a need to consciously practice self-awareness to be able to experiment, reflect, and refine our strengths and choices. Binod has taken the effort to pen down his own reflections and learnings for all of us to consider and see which of those we can relate to and hence can we learn from those experiences. His writing style is humorous at times, sarcastic as also direct and in your face so if you are someone who doesn’t relate to that style my suggestion will be to ignore the style and get at the substance. I think everyone will find something that they can think about and utilize in their lives. Happy reflections!

Pankaj Rai

Group Chief Data and Analytics Officer, Aditya Birla Group

“I must say, I am amazed on how direct to the point and powerful this book is. This will change the life of millions of people. This is like the Olympic torch which will light the pathway for millions who aspire to make their name. This is like a nectar for life, learnings from the Guru himself after helping, making, watching careers of thousands of successful finance professionals, who moved from can’t-do attitude to can-do attitude. When they say, all careers look elevated but only in retrospect, well here is what you need to become elevated, remain elevated, and continue to be elevated. What’s more appealing is the authenticity of the content, which is inspired by real examples, stories of life, and time-tested techniques which work not just on climbing corporate ladders but also climbing real mountain peaks. A must read for anyone and everyone who wants to change themselves and things around and their careers. Highly recommended!”

Biharilal Deora, CFA

Director, Abakkus Asset Management LLP

Director, CFA India Society

If you want to be an aspiring leader, there cannot be a better real source than Let’s Get Real.” The book is built around the idea that true managerial success comes from a ‘paradigm shift’ from knowing oneself to managing others. It is not only a guide to personal effectiveness but also provides insights on how to cope with transitions and deal with people and difficult situations effectively. Written by someone who himself has had successful stints as a corporate leader and entrepreneur, the book is clear and easy to understand, making it a great option for readers who may be new to the self-help or leadership genre”.

Nawazish Mirza, PhD

Full Professor and Director of Academics, Excelia

I had the pleasure of having Binod Shankar as my CFA trainer, and must say, his insights and mentorship had a lasting impact on my career. His new book, Let’s Get Real, reflects his vast experiences and unique approach to professional development. The book is a must-read for any senior professional who feels stuck in their career and is looking for practical, no-nonsense advice. Binod’s personal journey from a corporate warrior to a successful entrepreneur and his expertise as an executive coach is evident in the four parts of the book — knowing yourself, managing yourself, managing others, and managing transitions. The tips provided are highly relatable, and the storytelling brings the content to life. I highly recommend Let’s Get Real to anyone looking to take control of their career and avoid common mistakes that many managers make.

Hussein Sayed, CFA

Host at CNBC Arabia, Market Strategist, Media Trainer, MC & Moderator

“In Let’s Get Real, Binod Shankar does a masterful job of creating a practical guide to personal and professional transformation. He’s absolutely correct in his assessment that far too many of us go on autopilot and end up sleepwalking through our careers, never connecting the dots between personal and professional purpose. Let’s Get Real is a must-read for anyone who wants to wake up from a comfy, cozy career slumber.”

Dr. Andrew Temte, CFA

Author of Balancing Act: Teach, Coach, Mentor, Inspire, Host of The Balancing Act Podcast, and former CEO of Kaplan Professional

Advance praise for the book

Let’s Get Real is the ultimate toolkit for senior managers and leaders who feel stuck in their career and don’t know how to move up or sideways. Binod’s no-nonsense writing feels refreshing and gets to the heart of our behavioural shortcomings.”

Marshall Goldsmith

Thinkers50 Hall of Fame

#1 Leadership Thinker, #1 Exec Coach, #1 NYT Bestselling Author

“Binod Shankar is someone who has travelled his life’s journey with his eyes wide open. His strategy has been to learn from everything that happens to him and around him. This book describes how he has translated this into a philosophy and an approach which has delivered a very successful career. It works extremely well for all as an illustration of how thoughtful proactive career management works, irrespective of whether you agree with all of its content”.

Doug Strycharczyk, CEO, AQR International

The title of the book reflects the honest style Binod has always been known for and I wasn’t disappointed when I started reading. The honesty transpires throughout the book. It takes courage to be transparent in writing by sharing personal experiences, mistakes, and learnings. The genuine approach makes you relate to the author and identify with the situations. You are compelled to put the learnings into practice.

Pascale WAZEN PALPIED

Director, Head of Region, MEA FactSet

As the world has been shifting from scarcity to abundance be it food or information, our old mental models of spotting trends and following them are no longer relevant; rather we need to look within and follow our strengths/passions - in short, we need to become trend setters and not trend spotters. This is hard as we have been programmed over generations in the scarcity era. Hence there is a need to consciously practice self-awareness to be able to experiment, reflect, and refine our strengths and choices. Binod has taken the effort to pen down his own reflections and learnings for all of us to consider and see which of those we can relate to and hence can we learn from those experiences. His writing style is humorous at times, sarcastic as also direct and in your face so if you are someone who doesn’t relate to that style my suggestion will be to ignore the style and get at the substance. I think everyone will find something that they can think about and utilize in their lives. Happy reflections!

Pankaj Rai

Group Chief Data and Analytics Officer, Aditya Birla Group

“I must say, I am amazed on how direct to the point and powerful this book is. This will change the life of millions of people. This is like the Olympic torch which will light the pathway for millions who aspire to make their name. This is like a nectar for life, learnings from the Guru himself after helping, making, watching careers of thousands of successful finance professionals, who moved from can’t-do attitude to can-do attitude. When they say, all careers look elevated but only in retrospect, well here is what you need to become elevated, remain elevated, and continue to be elevated. What’s more appealing is the authenticity of the content, which is inspired by real examples, stories of life, and time-tested techniques which work not just on climbing corporate ladders but also climbing real mountain peaks. A must read for anyone and everyone who wants to change themselves and things around and their careers. Highly recommended!”

Biharilal Deora, CFA

Director, Abakkus Asset Management LLP

Director, CFA India Society

If you want to be an aspiring leader, there cannot be a better real source than Let’s Get Real.” The book is built around the idea that true managerial success comes from a ‘paradigm shift’ from knowing oneself to managing others. It is not only a guide to personal effectiveness but also provides insights on how to cope with transitions and deal with people and difficult situations effectively. Written by someone who himself has had successful stints as a corporate leader and entrepreneur, the book is clear and easy to understand, making it a great option for readers who may be new to the self-help or leadership genre”.

Nawazish Mirza, PhD

Full Professor and Director of Academics, Excelia

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